Head over hill in love with a drummer...

Guess what... i got flashed again!!! blardy hell, some people just have nothing better to do than handjob his u-know-what to surprise girls... i was quite upset by it actually. orang tengah tension balik kerja, and to see an unknown guy masturbate in front of u, just make the hell out of my day. i still don't know how to deal with it. i just walk away... sometimes i just wish i'm brave enough to go to this person and looked him dead in the eye and told him to put 'junior' away until he grew up. or have the guts to just laugh at it... sigh, i dare not.

it's kinda funny that this always happened to me, but come to think of it what if these perverts turn into rapers.. that thought scares me a lot actually. what a girl to do. i just have to be careful. like i say before, if i can survive puny little KL, i can survive anywhere :D

not much on the net about how to deal with flasher. this is what i gather though:

• Exhibitionism ("Flashing")
  Exhibitionism is characterized by intense, sexually arousing fantasies, urges or behaviors involving exposure of the individual's genitals to an unsuspecting stranger. The individual with this problem, sometimes called a "flasher," feels a need to surprise, shock or impress his victims. The condition usually is limited to the exposure, with no other harmful advances made, although "indecent exposure" is illegal. Actual sexual contact with the victim is rare. However, the person may masturbate while exposing himself or while fantasizing about exposing himself.
  Source : http://www.webmd.com
  
  
• What makes a man want to be a flasher? What are the psychological reasons for it?
  
  Depends what you mean. Loads of people randomly flash or streak just for the fun of it. It's because it's funny and slightly shocking - you know you shouldn't...
  
  If you mean the type who sneaks up on vulnerable women and starts masturbating, they're usually sex offender types. Often these people start at a lower level and gradually become more threatening, often going on to commit indecent assaults and rapes. A lot of them do have various psychological problems, including having been sexually abused themselves.
  
  i donno exactly, but it must be the power to shock and humiliate.persons who are flashers are probably not only sexually deviant but socially deviant too. its sort of like someone who gets no attention acts out bad things. this sickness can escalate and can become a full-blown sexual predator thing. if someone did this to you, report them. they need help and you wouldn't want this to happen to someone else. if it happened to someone you know, comfort them, it's not their fault.
  Source : http://answers.yahoo.com

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unrelated story, enjoy this video clip from the Arctic Monkeys. the cool drummer is not the actual drummer, but gosh, just look at how he play that drum... man, better than orgasm... i don't know why i always have the thing for a drummer or the guitarist... he's so cool. Gosh now i sound like that line of girls standing in front of the stage. hahah.. just enjoy the clip... i couldn't find who the hell that guy is.. been searching the net. Nada.. I can't seem to find anything on this mysterious drummer. pls help...

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tak jadi running the 10K at PD triathlon because our swimmer is working.. sian dia kene kerja. hahah... takper, the Fellowship of the Monyets never die... there'll be next time. since it was cancelled, i thought nak join charity run on saturday and sunday tapi sigh, they do not accept late registration. Looks like no race for me this month. Going to see what i can join next month pulak. Training is still going on... getting ready for the Putrajaya Half Marathon in September. There will be few beginners joining me in that race. Who else wanna join me? Come laaa... hehe. It'll be fun :D