Head over hill in love with a drummer...

Guess what... i got flashed again!!! blardy hell, some people just have nothing better to do than handjob his u-know-what to surprise girls... i was quite upset by it actually. orang tengah tension balik kerja, and to see an unknown guy masturbate in front of u, just make the hell out of my day. i still don't know how to deal with it. i just walk away... sometimes i just wish i'm brave enough to go to this person and looked him dead in the eye and told him to put 'junior' away until he grew up. or have the guts to just laugh at it... sigh, i dare not.

it's kinda funny that this always happened to me, but come to think of it what if these perverts turn into rapers.. that thought scares me a lot actually. what a girl to do. i just have to be careful. like i say before, if i can survive puny little KL, i can survive anywhere :D

not much on the net about how to deal with flasher. this is what i gather though:

  • Exhibitionism ("Flashing")
    Exhibitionism is characterized by intense, sexually arousing fantasies, urges or behaviors involving exposure of the individual's genitals to an unsuspecting stranger. The individual with this problem, sometimes called a "flasher," feels a need to surprise, shock or impress his victims. The condition usually is limited to the exposure, with no other harmful advances made, although "indecent exposure" is illegal. Actual sexual contact with the victim is rare. However, the person may masturbate while exposing himself or while fantasizing about exposing himself.
    Source : http://www.webmd.com

  • What makes a man want to be a flasher? What are the psychological reasons for it?

    Depends what you mean. Loads of people randomly flash or streak just for the fun of it. It's because it's funny and slightly shocking - you know you shouldn't...

    If you mean the type who sneaks up on vulnerable women and starts masturbating, they're usually sex offender types. Often these people start at a lower level and gradually become more threatening, often going on to commit indecent assaults and rapes. A lot of them do have various psychological problems, including having been sexually abused themselves.

    i donno exactly, but it must be the power to shock and humiliate.persons who are flashers are probably not only sexually deviant but socially deviant too. its sort of like someone who gets no attention acts out bad things. this sickness can escalate and can become a full-blown sexual predator thing. if someone did this to you, report them. they need help and you wouldn't want this to happen to someone else. if it happened to someone you know, comfort them, it's not their fault.
    Source : http://answers.yahoo.com

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unrelated story, enjoy this video clip from the Arctic Monkeys. the cool drummer is not the actual drummer, but gosh, just look at how he play that drum... man, better than orgasm... i don't know why i always have the thing for a drummer or the guitarist... he's so cool. Gosh now i sound like that line of girls standing in front of the stage. hahah.. just enjoy the clip... i couldn't find who the hell that guy is.. been searching the net. Nada.. I can't seem to find anything on this mysterious drummer. pls help...

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tak jadi running the 10K at PD triathlon because our swimmer is working.. sian dia kene kerja. hahah... takper, the Fellowship of the Monyets never die... there'll be next time. since it was cancelled, i thought nak join charity run on saturday and sunday tapi sigh, they do not accept late registration. Looks like no race for me this month. Going to see what i can join next month pulak. Training is still going on... getting ready for the Putrajaya Half Marathon in September. There will be few beginners joining me in that race. Who else wanna join me? Come laaa... hehe. It'll be fun :D

Comments

Gravt Kills said…
better to ignore and walk away...wat abt u and flashers la?
marina said…
I just stumbled through your blog - Love your kitty banner, its so adorable :)

And flashers? Maybe you should carry a pair of scissors with you the next time you travel. Any potential flasher would think twice ...
Horny Old Guy said…
I'm all for masturbation but some things should be done ONLY in private and that's one of them. Can't you report them to the police? Flashers belong in jail!
PR,

Haha! Just arm yourself with a catapult and some ball bearing ammo, the next time he takes aim, you just take it out and shoot at his little brother!

He deserves to be castrated!

Anyways, you can call me to be your swimming partner, I can swim but then how fast, I don't know?

:) come biking with the Kakibasikal ler
sumpit said…
ann,
mana ko kenal mamat tua kotor tu?
lawak gakler blog dia :p
PrincessRen said…
gravt : i walk away... i always walk away.. i don't know. why me? seriously, i dont know.

marina : hello marina. welcome to my humble blog :D heheh... that's my lovely princess and ren.

well i can carry the scissors with me but i don't know if i have the guts to use it though... thx for the advise :D

horny : yeah i do agree it should be done in private. Those perverts should be sent to jail of course... no point for me reporting this to the police now since i didn't see the man's face clearly.. i just walk away...

dv : haha.. good idea, but if my aim is good though.

yeah no problem... but i'm still learning how to swim properly... i'll cycle with u once i buy a bike okay...;D

sumpit : hahaaha.. manalah aku tau tetiba je dia ada kat sini. mcm2 org ada kat sini. nih i agak dia tengah cari ayat melancap and terjumpa blog i sbb i ada mention ayat tuh kat dalam entry nih.. hehe.. tapi mmg best jugak blog dia. mmg kelakar.. takdek kerja langsung org tua nih. asyik melancap je. .hahaaha
Arief Shah. said…
hahhaaa..yup..flasher suker kau sebab kau cute kot..hahhahaaha...2 kali pulak tu..dier dah aim kau kot..hahahaa....

ct kawen aaaa....khalid...semoga berbahagia aaa...kan...theirs' wedding kan....


ehh...Mary...kau bawak jer....pepper spray...spray kat toingtoing dier...bagi panas mcm api..hahhaa...


okies...wassalamz..
take care.
PrincessRen said…
arief : flasher suka tunjuk kat org cute ke? derang kalu dah perangai camtuh , dgn nenek pun derang nak tunjuk jugak..

no, this is not the same person. org lain pulak... thx for the advise... u too, take care :D
munchkins said…
I nearly got 'flashed' in the library? Couldn't get any safer than a library, or so i thought! Shheesshh! Next time, I'll be ready with a camera!

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